Next to this, Tchemoko is sympathetic. He recognizes our work, is happy that the children are happy, and is astonished when we say to him that it is time for us to go. He offers us tea, biscuits and peanuts, and even a hot sheep with potatos at 8.30 am.
An anonymous source will say to us that Tchemoko T. is like a `chambre a air' (litterally an 'elastic bicycle wheel chamber'). Go find who invented this expression, but roughly, it means that Tchemoko is sometimes nice, sometimes bad, and totaaly unafraid of expressing his moods.
Tchemoko is always very elegant, whether whering hois suit and tie or his local boubou. When Delphine compliments him on his elegance, he answers naturally: `Nice, isn' it?' with a very proud tone. And yes, you got it, Tchemoko is also very proud! And that is why he is often upset when we tease him or when do not understand each other. It is true that we are not naturally born 'corocrats', and it does take time for us to learn how to respect `the older'.
The last 'incident' made us laugh quite well. Before our departure, we invite Tchemoko at ALAD - our charity premises - to thank him and share a good home made apple crumble. The day before the invitation, a 'messenger' kid who ran several kms from the school to us hands us out panting a handwritten message: Tchemoko is sorry, he will not be able to honour our invitation. Delphine, amused by the words and the `messenger' technique, replies on a paper, while attaching a small candy to the package. The answer of Tchemoko, the following day, with the same messenger, on signed and stampped paper:
`Mr. Laurent and Miss Delphine,
Hello, I have received your nice gift, whose meaning is not understood. I give you back your only candy. Thank you very much. Good stay for the little time. The Director. '
(trans from french)